Have you ever been in love? Or are you trying to understand the feelings going on inside you. A lot of us mistake lust for love but can you really tell the difference from the two. I hope these signs help.
YOU ARE NEVER TIRED OF THE PERSON.
You know its like with people in our lives like our parents and all. We never get bored from seeing them. In the same way,one way of knowing if you're in love is always wanting to be with this person and when you're not together, you notice that that absence makes your heart grow fonder.
Another way of telling is finding that you're ready to compromise on certain things for this person.As I said in a previous post (how to make your marriage work,check it out), true love always compromises and if you find yourself willing to do so,then you've indeed fallen. But I have to precise that there are certain fundamental things you don't have to compromise.
YOU WANT YOUR FAMILY TO ACCEPT HIM/HER.
You do not understand why other people don't see what you see and you try to convince them to like and accept this person that you think is the 'best person in the world'.You quickly rise to his/her defence even when he/she is clearly in the wrong,making excuses for the person.
YOU ARE TRUST COMPLETELY THE PERSON
Jealousy is not necessarily a sign of true love.When you love someone,even if you feel a tinge of jealousy when you see them with the opposite sex,you trust this person completely not to do anything that will hurt your feelings.
YOU IMITATE SOME OF THE PERSON'S BEHAVIOUR.
Sometimes, you absentmindedly imitate the one you love's behaviour. Could be their gestures or way of doing things.This comes though after a period of intimacy and closeness.
YOU ARE READY TO SACRIFICE WITHOUT THINKING TWICE.
You discover you are ready to go anywhere, affront anything or person,do anything that this one asks you no matter what it'll cost you. Its kinda the love of a parent for his/her child.When you feel the same thing towards someone, then you're head over heels in live with that one.
We pray GOD to Help us not love the wrong person but that HE'll Guide us to the right one who will reciprocate our love shown.
Do you have a personal experience you're willing to share. Or do you think I didn't get it quite right? Please feel free and use the comment box below and educate us with your opinions.
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