5.Bring out the best in your spouse. This is important. Let your spouse be better because of your presence in his/her life. Sometimes, women who had a lot of dreams before their marriage do not achieve them because they did not get that"push" from their spouse and believe someone who doesn't feel fulfilled personally cannot make a happy home and make his/her spouse happy.So encourage one another to realize their goals in life.
6.Don't hold grudges. Discuss mutually ways your partner offended you not to hold grudge, but to prevent a reoccurrence. Don't keep quiet if your partner offends you.Tell him/her about it lovingly and then move on stronger from it.
7.Always remember why you got married in the first place. At times when there is a dispute, remind yourself of the wonderful person your spouse is and of your vows. You said till forever remember? and then try to resolve things amicably.
Thursday, 23 October 2014
9 Tips for making your marriage work.
A lot of marriages now don't even make it up to the tenth year because of so many reasons. I particularly believe that marriage is a two way thing and if both parties truly desire to, they can make it work.Below are tips suggested by John W.Jacobs (modified by me) to help marriages last longer.
1.Give it utmost importance-As a married person,after GOD,your marriage should come next. Your wife and king kids should be what matters to you.Don't place work before them .Work harder at your marriage than you do at your work.When all is well with your marriage, you ll notice you'll be more productive in your work.
2.Regularly, reconsider your needs.With time,your personal needs might change. So, discuss mutually your general and specific needs and let one be committed to meet the needs of the next one.
3.Compromise-As two individuals with completely different backgrounds and personalities, each of the spouses must be ready to let go of some certain things to be able to promote peace in the home.
4.Play regularly with yourselves. Don't let the spark of a playful atmosphere leave your home.See your marriage as an ongoing adventure and not an already achieved conquest. Play together. Do fun things together all the time,you know like best friends.
1.Give it utmost importance-As a married person,after GOD,your marriage should come next. Your wife and king kids should be what matters to you.Don't place work before them .Work harder at your marriage than you do at your work.When all is well with your marriage, you ll notice you'll be more productive in your work.
2.Regularly, reconsider your needs.With time,your personal needs might change. So, discuss mutually your general and specific needs and let one be committed to meet the needs of the next one.
3.Compromise-As two individuals with completely different backgrounds and personalities, each of the spouses must be ready to let go of some certain things to be able to promote peace in the home.
4.Play regularly with yourselves. Don't let the spark of a playful atmosphere leave your home.See your marriage as an ongoing adventure and not an already achieved conquest. Play together. Do fun things together all the time,you know like best friends.
Tips on taking the perfect selfie.
If you ve been taking selfies as I am sure you are, cos everyone is, lol and you feel like you could do better,here are some tips to help you do better.
The first thing to do is to know why you want to take that selfie, what you want to portray. It could be you want to show off,your new dress, a new hairstyle, your make up or maybe a spectacular background. Knowing this will help you know how to position your camera.
secondly, your lighting. Any photographer knows that lighting is paramount in getting a very sharp image.If you want your picture to have a moody theme,have light coming from the back as it gives a very nice shadow to the face. A front light is just like Photoshop.It also helps to remove spots and scars from the face.
The last and most important thing you need in getting a great selfie is Attitude! Oh yes.You can have a million dollar dress on with the perfect light but without attitude, your picture will look ducky and you don't want that. So, always have a fierce attitude, go for it and create even more precious memories from that selfie!
The first thing to do is to know why you want to take that selfie, what you want to portray. It could be you want to show off,your new dress, a new hairstyle, your make up or maybe a spectacular background. Knowing this will help you know how to position your camera.
secondly, your lighting. Any photographer knows that lighting is paramount in getting a very sharp image.If you want your picture to have a moody theme,have light coming from the back as it gives a very nice shadow to the face. A front light is just like Photoshop.It also helps to remove spots and scars from the face.
The last and most important thing you need in getting a great selfie is Attitude! Oh yes.You can have a million dollar dress on with the perfect light but without attitude, your picture will look ducky and you don't want that. So, always have a fierce attitude, go for it and create even more precious memories from that selfie!
Wednesday, 22 October 2014
Beyonce and her husband renew their vows.
Tuesday, 21 October 2014
Awkward picture of Beyonce+blue ivy is really dark skinned!
Hey people, I just bumped into these pics and t
hought to share them, what cha think?
Polygamy-Your thoughts and opinions.
I chose this topic because I have come to realize that it is one that almost each and everyone of us is affected by it, either directly or indirectly. I also know that being such a delicate matter, opinions will differ because of each one's personal experience. So do share your views so that they can be appreciated and compared. Thank you.GOD Bless.
See Amber Rose with long hair!
Monday, 20 October 2014
Tips on what to wear to make you look slimmer!
Do you dress up and feel like your dress is adding a few pounds to your weight? Well, here are a few tips on how to dress up and look slimmer!
If you are big woman, you should avoid dresses with horizontal lines or trimmings as they tend to make you look bigger than you really are. Wear instead dresses with vertical lines. Though, a slim girl can wear something with horizontal lines on top and vertical lines down to get a even slimmer look.
Also, a blazer that stops just under your waist worn along with a pair of skinny jeans and high heels, (no matter how high)will definitely make you look slimmer.It can also be worn with a pencil skirt.
Wearing a loose top with tight leggings finished off with a tummy belt, (could be either a wide or tiny one) will help give the illusion of a tiny waist and thereby, make you look slimmer than you are.
A bold or heavily shouldered top or gown, (preferably fitted), will give your body a triangular shape that will make you look slimmer and trim.
Okay,there you
u have them.Try these tips and feel even more confident stepping out of your house because as they say,the key to making a striking impression with your dressing is being confident of what you're wearing!
If you are big woman, you should avoid dresses with horizontal lines or trimmings as they tend to make you look bigger than you really are. Wear instead dresses with vertical lines. Though, a slim girl can wear something with horizontal lines on top and vertical lines down to get a even slimmer look.
Also, a blazer that stops just under your waist worn along with a pair of skinny jeans and high heels, (no matter how high)will definitely make you look slimmer.It can also be worn with a pencil skirt.
Wearing a loose top with tight leggings finished off with a tummy belt, (could be either a wide or tiny one) will help give the illusion of a tiny waist and thereby, make you look slimmer than you are.
A bold or heavily shouldered top or gown, (preferably fitted), will give your body a triangular shape that will make you look slimmer and trim.
Okay,there you
u have them.Try these tips and feel even more confident stepping out of your house because as they say,the key to making a striking impression with your dressing is being confident of what you're wearing!
Saturday, 18 October 2014
Bruce Jenner already over Kris...dating again!
TMZ has just reported that Bruce has started seeing one of Kris Jenner's best friends and has expected, this has angered Kris.According to TMZ, the woman is 51 year old Ronda who has been a close both to Kris and their family for years now.Another thing upsetting Kris is that Ronda has not spoken to her about the relationship between her and Bruce.
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Well,what do you think?I definitely didn't t expect Bruce to rebound this quickly,did you?
Pic courtesy of bossip.com
Pic courtesy of bossip.com
Friday, 17 October 2014
The African man and the "21st Century woman"
With the coming of the 21st Century and all the advancements it brought with it,a lot of things changed and it is unarguably true that the woman of yesterday is not the woman of today.So,as regards her relationship with the african man,(I mean generally)what has changed?The pros,the cons,have these changes helped her,has the man adapted to them, what are your thoughts?
The Nigeria of our dreams?it starts with this!
Catchy topic right? but really,isn't that what we all want,a country where everything works perfectly? Well,at least I know that's what I want.So what role does you and I,the electorate have to play in realising this dream?a lot of roles!but a crucial one is to pray for our leaders.
Indeed,pray for our leaders.You know,sometimes,we tend to be quick to criticize our leaders and say, "if I were there,I would do this, I would do that" but its not as easy as it seems because when you wear the shoes,you know it's a different ball game.That is why the Word of GOD Says, "to pray for all those in authority" because afterall,they are just like you and I, men who need the Guidance of GOD.
So today, take out time to pray for all our leaders starting from our president, President Goodluck Ebele Jonathan to the councillors in your local government area for GOD Almighty to Guide them in taking decisions that will take us to the NIGERIA of our dreams for us and future generations to enjoy!
Indeed,pray for our leaders.You know,sometimes,we tend to be quick to criticize our leaders and say, "if I were there,I would do this, I would do that" but its not as easy as it seems because when you wear the shoes,you know it's a different ball game.That is why the Word of GOD Says, "to pray for all those in authority" because afterall,they are just like you and I, men who need the Guidance of GOD.
So today, take out time to pray for all our leaders starting from our president, President Goodluck Ebele Jonathan to the councillors in your local government area for GOD Almighty to Guide them in taking decisions that will take us to the NIGERIA of our dreams for us and future generations to enjoy!
Monday, 13 October 2014
The Blog with a difference!
Hey everyone!OK,so this is my very second post here and I was wondering what to post and then I thought,”why not formally introduce the blog?”So ,this is ESTELLINAS blog,owned by yours truly,Esther Chiemerie to talk about basically every topic that is of interest to man.All your contributions and comments are welcome but pls o no spam,lol.So,I guess I d say let the fun begin!
Thursday, 2 October 2014
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