Are you down and out because you think nobody likes you? Are you insecure? Do you desire more friends than you have now?Do you want to be more sociable and confident? If you answer yes to all these questions, then rejoice, this post is for you!
1. The real first step in becoming likable is to be completely comfortable in your own skin.. Don't dwell on the things that are unchangeable trying unnecessarily to change them .
Things like the house you grew up, how you were raised, who your parents are your physical appearance. These things DO NOT change.Accept yourself for who you are because If you don't, you'll be unconsciously sending the wrong signals to people who will see nothing to like about you because that's how you see yourself
This quality surpasses physical appearance, education, intelligence or any educational advantage. This is a sure foundation for achieving success in life.
Examine and change Negative Things
With your past experiences, examine and discover those things that hindered you from getting something or moving ahead in relationships. For example, if you have a way of addressing people that is not exactly pleasant, change it.Get yourself ready for more social interactions.
If you are insecure or you have inferiority complex, there's good news for you.You can change all that. Learn to be less critical and judgemental of others.
The Ability To Change is With You
To make yourself attractive to others, you have to come to a place of confidence. Do the needful on your part .The real prerequisite for becoming likable is all for you to do.
You can't change how you look or your height but you can make yourself ready for liking from others by being open to others, being more thankful to GOD for His Blessings, appreciate people in your life and continue striving to be the person you want to be.
Don't Give Up
On your way in achieving these things, there will be challenges but don't consider them.Just keep heading for where you want to be.
It takes time to build up confidence and erase insecurity but with constant readiness to get better, you will.
Be A Friend To People
A wise saying goes, "To get a friend, you have to be one". So true. If you want to be likable to others, be there for them.Render help.Be nice and cheerful. Always smile. Send the right signals and you'll soon have countless of people who will be proud to call you friend.
There you ho, the simplest way to go from the least popular to the most popular. Remember, it starts with you.... and service rendered is service received.
