A lot of marriages now don't even make it up to the tenth year because of so many reasons. I particularly believe that marriage is a two way thing and if both parties truly desire to, they can make it work.Below are tips suggested by John W.Jacobs (modified by me) to help marriages last longer.
1.Give it utmost importance-As a married person,after GOD,your marriage should come next. Your wife and king kids should be what matters to you.Don't place work before them .Work harder at your marriage than you do at your work.When all is well with your marriage, you ll notice you'll be more productive in your work.
2.Regularly, reconsider your needs.With time,your personal needs might change. So, discuss mutually your general and specific needs and let one be committed to meet the needs of the next one.
3.Compromise-As two individuals with completely different backgrounds and personalities, each of the spouses must be ready to let go of some certain things to be able to promote peace in the home.
4.Play regularly with yourselves. Don't let the spark of a playful atmosphere leave your home.See your marriage as an ongoing adventure and not an already achieved conquest. Play together. Do fun things together all the time,you know like best friends.
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